These are the words that Crossroads for Women clinician Faith Sheehan typically starts off with in the first session of her friends and family educational series. Those 4 words, "it's not your fault," usually draw a sigh of relief to participants.

This may not have anything to do with substance abuse and work, but it's still funny ... A woman from Iowa is becoming a bit of a celebrity because of an ad she is running in The Des Moines Register to sell her teenage son's car.